AHDAMAAhdama for Men
Four days. Three nights. Nothing to perform.
An immersive retreat for Jewish men who have been carrying it alone and are done doing it that way.
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throughSouth FloridaApplications open
- Arrival
- Thursday by 5 PM
- Conclusion
- Sunday by 5 PM
- Facilitators
- Omar Pinto, Meir Kalmanson, and Eli Nash
Dates do not work?
Apply anyway. We’ll contact you when another date opens.
The retreat
Four days away from the life you built.
You have been carrying it alone for a long time. The work, the family, the standard you hold yourself to, and whatever it is you have never said to anyone. For four days you put it down in a room of Jewish men doing the same, and you find out what is underneath.
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Facilitated work
Group work and psychodrama
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Body and movement
Breathwork, exercise, ecstatic dance, and cold plunge
- 03
Stillness and quiet
Meditation and time without a phone
- 04
Meals and brotherhood
Real food, men's circles, and time to connect
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Shabbos & prayer
Shabbos meals and prayer for those who choose



Watch
A look inside the room.
Watch the Ahdama Video
What is included
The practical details.
- Lodging
- Lodging is included, either inside the home or in a well appointed 20 foot bell tent. All accommodations are shared with other men.
- Food
- All meals, snacks, and drinks are included. The food is generous, thoughtfully prepared, and served with the same care given to the rest of the experience. Every meal is kosher under the supervision of our chef and mashgiach, Mendy Baruch. We can accommodate most dietary needs and allergies when you tell us in advance.
- Travel
- For those flying, Fort Lauderdale–Hollywood International Airport and Miami International Airport are both convenient options. Before the retreat, we create a WhatsApp group so attendees can coordinate and, when possible, share transportation.
- Individual considerations
- You are asked to be in the room for everything. You are never required to do anything. Medical, physical, and other considerations are reviewed with you individually.






The process
How joining Ahdama works.

The room is intentional.
We read every application ourselves to make sure each man is a fit for the work and the group. No one attends simply by reserving a spot. The men beside you have been thoughtfully considered too.
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Apply
Complete the application and tell us what is bringing you to Ahdama. Select a retreat date if one works for you.
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We review
An Ahdama team member reviews your application for fit. We may call you if we need to understand something more clearly.
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Approved
Approval makes you a member of Ahdama. That is what opens retreats and everything that follows.
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Book your retreat
Choose from the available retreats and complete your booking. Your place is confirmed once registration is complete.
After booking
You will receive your confirmation, waiver, and packing list. You will also be invited to the attendee WhatsApp group before the retreat.